I do not find myself unattractive, but I also do not find myself attractive. I feel like I am just sort of here, not something that really grabs anyone’s attention. Sort of like a chair. Or maybe a lamp. I am the type of person who suspects that everyone hates me unless they tell me otherwise & remind me regularly. I honestly believe that life is too short for single-shot lattes. I cuss so much that sometimes I forget it is actually bad & not everyone is comfortable with it. I am really stressed because other people my age are being successful & getting solid evidence that they are talented & I spend almost all of my nights banging my head on the keyboard of this goddamn laptop. -Sarah Anne (est. 1996)
"Marry your best friend. I do not say that lightly. Really, truly find the strongest, happiest friendship in the person you fall in love with. Someone who speaks highly of you. Someone you can laugh with. The kind of laughs that make your belly ache, and your nose snort. The embarrassing, earnest, healing kind of laughs. Wit is important. Life is too short not to love someone who lets you be a fool with them. Make sure they are somebody who lets you cry, too. Despair will come. Find someone that you want to be there with you through those times. Most importantly, marry the one that makes passion, love, and madness combine and course through you. A love that will never dilute - even when the waters get deep, and dark."